Sex and Sexuality
When we talk about sex and sexuality, we have in mind bisexuality, cross-dressing, lesbianism, homosexuality, and several forms of the adult industry.
There are no words to describe how you feel when you learn that your partner is a transvestite or unusual in some way, and usually, this has a great impact on your partner. You may be frightened or insulted, but you know this is who your partner really is. You can then begin to accept her choice without fear of rejection.
There are many couples that find themselves on different sides of the gender or gender spectrum. Woman or man, if you are a woman with estrogen, you may be drawn to men because of your common menstrual cycle. With estrogen, you may be drawn to women or vice versa. We are bombarded with media images that do not convey the truth about sex almost every day. Every day we are told how to look, dress, act, socialize, how to live and what to eat. All of these messages tell us how to buy the latest perfumes, how to lose weight, which gym activities are right for us, and so on.
These massive media messages about what is seen and touched on TV, in the movies, and on the computer have Americans living more like centuries ago than decades ago. With all the political issues that are touching the country and penetrating the media, it becomes obvious that Americans are not having the profound and soul-satisfying soul-sex that was readily and readily available just 20 years ago.
Soul-satisfying sex is more than sex with a person of the same gender. It is about connections and having a connection to a higher power. It is about spiritual connection and living in a way that is divine. It is about feeling like you are not alone in the universe.
So you can see that it is more than just being open and honest about who you are as a transvestite or transvestite. It is about connecting with your divine self as a male or female. In order to achieve this, you need to pass through many layers and stages of self-doubt, self-allows, and self-injection before you can experience the divine.
As you pass through the first layer of doubt, you can begin to feel more comfortable with who you are and what you are, but you also need to arm yourself with knowledge and understanding of what is and is not acceptable. In this layer, you can find both male and female gender characteristics, the construction of peer pressure, and the search for community.
The second layer is the layer of self-acceptance and discovery. In this layer, you find acceptance of who you are as a unique human soul. You are now in touch with your awesome ability to feel, sense life’s events, perceive moment to moment, and change slowly, gently, and forever. From this place of self-acceptance and self-acceptance, you can let go of everything, including you and your partner(s). From here, you can allow yourself to feel, see, hear, walk in truth, and make decisions that are free from personal blame, neither turning up nor going away.
From this place of self-acceptance and wisdom, you can, through letting go be uninhibited and express yourself as you want. From this place, you can let go of rules, right and wrong, and everything. You can move forward to an ever-expanding experience filled with joy, ecstasy, and love.
As you allow yourself to move through the third layer of self-acceptance and self-acceptance, you can drop the ideas about “right” and “wrong,” and you can accept that regardless of who you are or how you feel in this moment, you are in touch with and experiencing God.
The self-acceptance of who you are led to accepting the truth about your sexuality. This is your body, it’s not wrong, it’s good, and it’s going to be God. So you can accept that, and you can move forward from there. There should be no need for you to find yourself in teaching defeat that porn teaches you to find. Rather, you should be able to accept the truth about your sexuality and God’s plan for you without guilt or regret.
Sexuality and spirituality are related, just as everything in life is. The tendency to fall prey to the “Bad” in life is because we have accepted or are in denial of the “Good,” that we are each different in our responses to opposite-sexed or same-sexed stimulus. Isn’t it sad that we have to stoop so low to have a chance of experiencing the Absolute Holiness of God?
The sexual impurity of man is his own sin.
